俗话说:

家家有本难念的经

这是我在这次新年的house visiting 中，所领悟到的。。。

不一定有钱就会快乐。。。

I am very happy, to be blessed with wonderful parents, & my family is almost problems free…

I saw with my own eyes, how lonely my Uncle was during the reunion dinner on Sunday, sitting in one corner of the corridor, smoking alone….

It was quite a sad sight, because he seems to not be able to get along well with any of his brothers @ all…

I’m not going into details on this matter, & all I can say is that I really feel very sad seeing him this way…

He seems to have everything… From a 3 story terrace house, to numerous high end vehicles, (a Mazda WRX, 2 Merz Benz (Series 3 & 5), a maid, many workers & tonnes of money…

But why isn't he happy @ all..???

Only we know, & I’m sure he knows too…

I was oblivious to all the happenings in the past, but as time goes by, & as we get older, we get to see & understand what’s happening, from an adult’s point of view….
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Also, I’ve learnt to take everything in my own stride, because, afterall, 嘴巴是人家的。。

I’m not going into details on this too… (=

如果我说 i’m least affected by all the comments or the way people look at me, 那是假的。。

但这一切已经,不太重要了， 因为，只求自己无愧于心，那就足够了。。快乐就好。。(=

何必要为了无谓的gossips， 弄得自己如此不快乐呢？看淡就好。。。(=

经上记着说：

喜乐的心乃是良药；
忧伤的灵使骨枯干。

所以，我要快乐