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Wednesday, 29 October 2008 22:28 The show is now premiering @ 9pm on Channel 8, Mondays to Fridays... 这部连续剧述说了爱之病患者所面临的困难与痛苦... 除了要忍受病痛所带来的痛苦,还要忍受遭人白眼和冷嘲热讽的痛苦... 其实,在现实生活中,真的有太多太多的人,是非常需要我们的关爱与关心的..就象"心情大动员"这个节目就以最真实的故事让我们意识到,其实我们还算幸福...最起码,我们四肢都健全..这应该算最难能可贵的吧?? 另一方面,"不凡的爱"探讨着患有爱之病的国人所面临的社会问题.... 难到这就意味着我们这所谓四肢健全的人,就能够剥夺他们生存的权利吗? 那也未免太残忍了吧? 或许你们会问我,为何我会突然有诸多感触.. 其实,我是"过来人"...我完全能够体会他们的心情... 或许,那种不是滋味的心情,只有身入其镜的人才能体会的到吧... 最后,我想说的是,我们是不是应该放开胸怀接受这些特别的人,给予他们一个从新来过,一个能容入奢华的机会呢? 我想那应该就是他们最简单,但又奢侈的要求和机会吧? Tuesday, 28 October 2008 22:14 The broadband is killing me!! It keeps disconnecting, for no rhyme or reason, & it keeps connecting to a network, which DOES NOT belong to us, & the signal is very low... I really don't understand why this is happening... Can someone enlighten me???? My cough, is slowly (but not exactly) recovering... (= The last few days, was like hell, simply because despite drowning litres & litres of water down my throat, it never seems to sufficient, & my throat remains very dry & itchy... )= Its irritating, but thank God, Dear was there to NAG @ me, forcing down the yucky cough syrup+pill down my throat.. I feel full & bloated after each medicine feed.. *puke* Though the medicine didn't take effect immediately, i'm greatful that i'm feeling soooooooooooo much better now... (= Hopefully, i'll be fully recovered by tomorrow... (= I'm craving for roti prata!!!! *drools* Monday, 27 October 2008 10:01 The sore throat, is totally relentless... Its taking a toll on me, especially on my back waist area...)= The flu, is settling in, apparently, & its making me really really lethargic & i'm battling the thought of whether i should go to the doctor's... Its Deepavali.. There's a all-in one party later, over @ Uncle Rocky's place,(Lady Boss, Uncle Rocky's daughter, & Deepavali party) which i've promised Burger i'll go... (fact is, i really don't feel like going AT ALL, but guess i really have no choice) Ohhhh nevermind lah!! = I'm happy that i'm done with the change of blogskin for Hamburger too... (= OK.. I think thats about all for today... Happy holiday to all...(= Sunday, 26 October 2008 01:51 Finally, my blog is being revamped, & i do hope that you guys would like the new blog.. (= Know what??? Its now 0051, & i spent the last 2 hours battling this stupid html thing.. I'm pissed, but am determined to get it done, never mind the fact that my head is spinning like hell now... *pssst* But, but, but, i'm elated, that i finally did it.. (= My mind can't think properly now... )= There's church, followed by flag prac later!!!!! Time to hit the sack!!! Thursday, 23 October 2008 12:33 edited @ 2245: Apparently, it does not pay to be nice at all... NOT AT ALL... It just proved to be too trying for me... But one thing's for sure, i'll just cease to be nice, once & for all.. Guess thats the only way, when dealing with ungratefuls. = My visitors stats, stands @ 3501 now, & i just can't help but wonder when will it ever hit the 5k mark... Just pure curiosity... HAHAHA!!!(= Super bo-liao, i know, but i need to kill time before i hit the showers & head for my CBP interview @ 1430... Am really really excited, & i really really really hope i get it ok ...(= As for my sore throat, its getting better, alot better... (= Thanks Hamburger & Jes for all the concern..(= But the sad thing is, my bones are still aching, & i woke up, with my sleep suit drenched in cold sweat, & its disgusting ok!!! Anyway, anyhow, i'm glad that i'm now recovered, well enough to attend my interview later, & that's something to smile about!!! (= Alright, time for me to hit the showers, & off i go for the interview... (=(= The job's gonna be mine!!! (= Wednesday, 22 October 2008 15:36 Am now nursing a bad throat+aching bones... )= It seems like my bones are going to give way anytime soon, despite having spent the whole morning in bed, & only managed to get out of it @ about 2-something... )= Was feeling grumpy for the whole time, & find no interest in anything else, except to sleep, & even every small movement on the bed sent my bones going 'cruck-cruck-cruck... Not exaggerating, but with each 'cruck', i find myself whining like a helpless baby... )= Not funny... Not funny at all... Bless my 2nd interview tomorrow... I hope i'll recover fast enough, hopefully by tonight, to attend the interview, giving it my best shot...!! At the most least, let my voice recover... Amen.... Tuesday, 21 October 2008 15:39 已经两天没blog了.... 所以,寻众要求,我今天就blog一下好了...(= 昨天去了三个interviews, 一个10am,一个2pm,紧接着是4pm的interview... 真是环岛追追追呀!!! 从CHANGI BUSINESS PARK,到CLARKE QUAY,再从CLARKE QUAY到KAKI BUKIT...还真是蛮累人的!!! HAHA!!!(= 今早,CHANGI BUSINESS PARK的负责人拨电叫我星期四去second interview, 好开心呀!!! 第一,CBP离我家最近,地二,环境很不错,第三,薪金与福利雄厚...所以特别开心... 至于第二个interview,八成是gone case,因为那个interviewer并不很有善, 牙尖嘴利的他,总是爱反驳我所给予的答案,令我有想窒息的感觉...)= 举例说明,他问我: Interviewer: So what do you think makes a good receptionist? Me: So long as you always maintain a smile & provide the customers a service to the best of your capability, because receptionists,are always first to come in contact with customers or clients... Interviewer: Oh, so thats what you call a good receptionist already?? (eyebrow lifting) Me: Yes, i personally think so... He continued asking: Interviewer: So,why do you want to apply for this position? Me: I love meeting & interacting with people, & i'll have this sense of satisfaction whenever someone tell me: Eh Connie, your smile makes my day, or thanks for your service.. Like in my previous company, customers buys me lunch as a token of appreciation, & having them still remembering me when we happen to meet outside, despite the fact that i've left the company long ago... Interviewer: Oh, so are you eyeing on the free lunch you gotten from customers & do you really want to be a receptionist for the rest of your life?? Is that your utmost ambition???(lifting his eyebrow again) The best part is, he muttered something, i translated as 胸无大志... 被问到这里时,我突然间有一种莫明的失落感,然后想一走了之... 我心想,如果being a receptionist就是胸无大志的话,那他们又何必登报,在看了我emailed他们的resume后又叫我下去interview呢??何必??? 或许是对我所给予的答案不够满意吧..又或许他们觉得答案真的有够欠扁....HAHA!!! 如果真是如此,那我也没办法... 至于我的第三个interview, 总而来说,还算顺利...(= 那位interviewer,满cute的...Interviewed了我一个半小时ok,是我有史以来,最长的一次!!!HAHA!!!但令我最吃惊的是,他竟然把我的salary压到千二块,比我的expected,吃掉了一大半!!!令我愣了一下!!!!然后他问我ok吗?? 在composure-regained之后,我摇了摇头... 他接着就问: Interviewer: So how low can you go??? Me: At the most least, 1.5... Interviewer: Hmmmmm ok... That, actually shouldn't be a problem... 说实在的,我的expected salary,并不很高呀...我是有自知之明...我的学历并不高,所以在要求薪金放面并不能太高..但千二实在不在我所能接受的范围内... 他接着又说,千五,问题不大..要是他offer我的话,我是否会take up the offer? 我点了点头,他微笑的也点了点头...(= 在离开之前,和我诚恳的握了握手,然后就说会再与我联络...(= 要是你问我,如果CBP和KAKI BUKIT同时offer我那个职位,我会accept哪个??? 我好不犹豫的会要CBP的..(= 现在,就祝我CBP的second interview成功吧!!(= 加油!!!凯玲CAN,& WILL make it!!! (= PS: Jes, 够长了吧???哈哈!!!! Sunday, 19 October 2008 00:05 Here, i'm going to dedicate this post, to 2 of my friends, who are going through all the shites from matters-of-the-heart... I sincerely, hope that you guys will get outta all the shite real soon.... Here, this song, dedicated to you, & i hope it'll heal all the hurts that you guys have experienced, & all i needed you guys to know, is the fact that i will always be there for you, should you need a listening ear or a shoulder for you to cry on...(= Cheer, pal, everything's gonna be alright... (= Until I Get Over You Woke up today thinking of you Another night that I made my way through So many dreams still left in my mind But they can never come true I press rewind and remember when I close my eyes and I'm with you again But in the end I can still feel the pain, every time I hear your name [Chorus] The sun won't shine since you went away Seems like the rain's falling every day There's just one heart, where there once was two But that's the way it's gotta be, Until I get over you [Verse 2] Walked through the park, in the evening air I heard a voice and I thought you were there I run away but I just can't escape Memories of you everywhere They say that time will dry the tears But true love burns for a thousand years Give my tomorrows for one yesterday Just to know that I could have you here *Repeat Chorous [Bridge] When will this river of tears stop fallin' Where can I run so I won't feel alone Can't walk away when the pain keeps callin' I've just gotta take it from here on my own But it's so hard to let go *Repeat Chorous... _____________________________________________ Well, i really really hope to see the chirpy you soon Saturday, 18 October 2008 12:36 Got to know that one of my malay friend, who got engaged in June, had called off the engagement yesterday... So sad... )= She was all smiles & was over the moon when she announced her engagement with her long time boyfriend... Gone for good, was the bright smile of hers, & all she does now, is cooping herself in the room, & it ached my heart to read her blog entries etched with so much sadness.... )= I've read her ex-fiance's blog too, & as usual, each has their own version of story to tell... But from all the entries, i got the (self-presumed) correct picture... You all be the judge... Taken from HER blog: I miss the weight on my finger, the ring that we were wearing as a significance that we belong to each other. Now both rings is with me. Tell me what do i do with it. Engraved on the ring was our name. Nut Isha 140608. Just what the f*** happened to us? Was I being to self-centered that I push you aside? But why couldn't you try to compromise just a bit for me? And now, from HIS blog: Sadly, it didn't work out. Just weeks into the it, we faced difficulties. I was hugely disappointed. I held my chin up and tried to carry on, obstacle after obstacle I came across. With each obstacle, my will grew weaker. I tried to carry on. One day, an oppurtunity came. I thought to myself, "Let her try my shoes on for size." She couldn't take it. I still held on. I asked for a sign. Last night, God showed me a sign. I understood what God was showing. I accepted our fate. I decided enough was enough. Its now over. & in another saperate post of HIS, it says: The weight of my shoulders is pulling me down. I can barely hold my head up. The tears well in my eyes but I don't even have the strength to cry. I can barely muster the strength to swallow my saliva. Seriously, my heart ached so much & i read on with tears, flowing like a tap... I never ever expected them to come to such an end... In HER earlier post, she was all excited about the engagement.... In that particular post, which she wrote with great joy: So about my personal life with my dearest..it's been good. There's still the ups and downs but pretty much better than before..and we're getting engaged this june! Can you believe it?! =) His parents came over few weeks before to meet my parents to talk about the engagement and all. I was over the moon when i know that they were coming over..and although, I was at work doing my afternoon shift, sadly..still, i felt so nervour and anxious at the same time. Had butterflies in my stomach..and when i come to think about it, it's only engagement..not marriage..haha! I think i'm gonna get cold sweats when i'm about to get married. The engagement will be held on the 14th of june..which is like almost only two months away from now. Preparations are taking place one at a time..we're not helding it so grand..just like the normal procedure, family, closest relatives, neighbours and closest friends. Hmm..can't believe that we are actually getting engaged after all. Soon, i'm gonna be more than just a girlfriend. So, for sure i'm happy. One step closer to having my own family with him. Just praying hard that everything will take place smoothly as planned. So, closest peeps...just be there for my engagement alright.. I just hope that she'll recover soon enough, to move on with life, coz life still goes on right...??? Cheer pal, & everything will blow over soon...(= ______________________________________________________________ Now, for my MVLLKK, i would like you to know that I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU, no matter what... But there is one more thing to add to my wishlist & that is, LKK to not always make me angry... HAHA!!! Friday, 17 October 2008 15:09 Here to update abit, before i hit the showers... (= Very sticky & stinky now, all thanks to the mopping of floor earlier in the morning... Change of blog song, & i may be revamping my blog, to give it a whole new look quite soon... Hopefully, blogger doesn't play prank on me.... So, stay tuned for the revamp... Till then, loads of loves...*muackies* Thursday, 16 October 2008 14:16 OK peeps.. Today, i'm here, with a great bargin... I've got 8 Sentosa tickets to let, @ a unbeatable price of $19/tix... Buy 3 @ $17/tix, a totally, unbeatable price!!!! You guys must be thinking: How come so cheap? Well, the reason being, the tixs are expiring by the end of Oct... Simple as that... (= The package, is inclusive of the following: - Island Admission by train; - Images of Singapore; - 1 way cable car ride & - Song of the sea. I've got another batch of 4 tixs, of the same package, expiring by the end of Nov... The original price of this same package, will cost you about $30 if you buy-over-the-counter... Deepavali is coming right up, & if you guys are thinking of where to spend it, Sentosa would be a good choice, won't it...? So, if you guys are interested, you may want to drop me a tag on the number of tix required... Be fast, before its being sold out... (= Wednesday, 15 October 2008 16:35 Attended a interview, early this morning, & i conclude that i can forget about getting the job... )= Reason being, i blundered the whole interview!!! I BLUNDERED it ok!!! My mind, went blank suddenly, & i just any-old-how answered to the very comman interview questions, & the interview in the end, was over in less than 15 minutes...=,=''' Went for the second & third interview, which went relatively ok... But, the thing is, i was so the very demoralised from the first interview, & it pulled down my overall morale... Plus the fact that i've spent some $10 cab fares alone... )= I'm utterly demoralised... Really...)= Hope tommorrow would be a better day... Not pinning any hopes (of getting) for any of the interviews today, coz i'm just not up to the mark today... )= Can anyone cheer up my gloomy gloomy day....??? I hate myself today...!!!)= Tuesday, 14 October 2008 16:18 Hi peeps!!! Finally back to post... (= Been busy the last few days, thus the lack of updates.. I think there is something wrong with my blogger account, coz i can't seemed to change my font+colour... Anyone knows what's the problem...??? Hmmmmm i don't know...)= Nothing much to update about actually.... Thought of uploading the dentures that we saw on the train last friday, but i can't seemed to find my cable.. It got misplaced somewhere... HAHA!!! Just how absent minded can i get....??? HEE!!! Meeting LKK tommorrow, for a ice-cream feast!!!! Its been sooooooooooooooo long since we last had it ok!!!!!!! Ice-cream, here i comeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want the double scooped one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MUMMYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!! I want!!!!!! Saturday, 11 October 2008 00:18 Worrywart, paranoid, unsecured, overwhelmed uncertainties........ Guess thats all the words that can best describe what i'm feeling now.... yes... overwhelmed uncertainties, AGAIN.... This word, seemed so so so familiar yet distant to me now..... Contridicting i know, but can someone, ease my fears, & tell me everything's gonna be alright...??? I hate this feeling thats swimming deep within me... I hate this feeling, allowing my emotions to get the better of me.....)= Signs of depression sinking in again...??? Hopefully NOT!!! __________________________________________________________ On a lighter note, thanks buddy for cheering me up with the 'mysterious dentures' that sent young girls sreaming their lungs out....(= About the denture story, i'll blog about it when i feel better, alright....??? Time to go try get some sleep.... Thursday, 9 October 2008 14:19    09:19 Early this morning, i recieved 2 very sweet sms(es), one from Cec, & the other from Reg...(= Both wished me good luck for my first day, both sms(es) came in @ 0758!!! Funny ok, & i'm so happy that they wished me well... It gives me the courage i desperately need.. So, to Cec & Reg, (if you ever see this post) thanks!!!! The thing is, i'll be starting tommorrow instead, due to unforeseen circumstances!!! HAHA!!! Come to think of it, i've got a bunch of sweeties around me, something i've realized only recently... (= First & foremost, my LKK, who loves me just the way i am, & its been quite some time since we last had any disagreements, so, for being so good recently, he got his reward last night... (= Then, its my sweet family... We've grown alot closer since sister's wedding... Much, much closer... So happy can.. (= Then, its Jes, my buddy, who never fails to encourage & accompany me through my downtimes... (= Then there's (Serene, Cec, Reg, Siew, Yueli) these people whom i would like to thank, for their genuine friendship... Very much appreciated, & all i need you guys to know is, i really love all of you (= You guys are just so sweet!!!! (= See?? Told you i don't usually dislike people.... I can be alot nicer, if you're a sincere friend.... OK... Maybe, maybe, maybe, i just appear as someome so unapproachable or unfriendly to some... But, in actual fact, i'm not.... My friends, true & sincere ones, can vouch for that... (= Show me you're sincere, & you'll get to know the real me... Suddenly, i miss my DGM colleauges, Pauline, Shauna, PH, Adeline, Bib... I really do miss them, alot, alot... )= I think i beter end here, before i go on & on... The post is getting very lengthy, & boring... Wednesday, 8 October 2008 15:10 Finally, i can bid goodbye to my lazy days.... Come tommorrow, its a new job, new enviroment, new people & new beginning... I really hope i'll be able to cope, coz its been more than one year now, since i last touched anything on admin stuffs, & pray hard that my Excel skills has not rusted... I really really hope everything turns out well.... Alright, ciaoz people... Nothing to update already... Tuesday, 7 October 2008 14:44 Like finally, i've found a job... (= The interviewer asked me about my marital status again, & for a moment, i thought: gone liao lah...!!! HAHA!!! But later, was so happy that she asked me to REPORT for work on Thursday, just before ending the interview... (= The thing is, my office is soooooooooooooooo near to that of Cec's... HAHA!!!(= I called LKK & told him about it, & he was sooooooooooooo hyper lor... He appeared to be much happier than me.... =,= Sis is coming back tonight, & we'll be @ we'll be having Popeye's Chicken tonight....!!! Soooooooooooooooooo looking forward to it boy!!!! (= Monday, 6 October 2008 13:35 The weekend is over, & now, its Monday again... )= My job search continues, & am having another interview come tomorrow morning...(= The funny thing is, i went for so many interviews, & gotten none of them...)= Are employers getting fussier when a woman's marital status is married...??? I never had any trouble getting myself another job back then when i was on 'single' status... The employers would ask questions like: Interviewer: Oh, so you are married...?? Me: oh yes, i've ROM-ed... The next question was: Interviewer: So when is your customary..?? Me: Erm, probably in a years or so time... Interviewer: Oh, so i reckon you'll be starting a family quite soon...?? Me: Probably... (i see no need to say NO, coz this kind of thing is so unpredictable... when it comes, it comes... i can't have control over it...) Frankly, i find it ironical, because, people marry for the sake of starting a family of your own right...?? It does not solely build on the i love you, you love me theory.. (at the most least, it does not apply to me) The government, on one hand is promoting childbearing with attractive benefits... But, the employers, on the other hand, would shun away such employees.... Funny right...?? Anyway, all the best for my upcoming interview(s).. I hope to get a job soon, to kill the boredom!!!! And to save for my wedding!!!! Saturday, 4 October 2008 13:31 First & foremost, let me take this opportunity, to extend my heartiest congraulations to Siew on her pregnancy... Sooooooooooooo happy for her can.... Hope that she can take good care of herself & the cute lil one, growing inside her...(=(= To Siew; come back fast ok... Then we can meet up for a lil catchup & i want to feel your tummy can!!!!!(= Siew, is another sweet friend of mine... I would never forget, how she would often send me msn messages when i'm offline, either to congraulate me on my ROM, or to update me about life abroad.. (her hubby is there on some attachment or something like that) She should be coming back quite soon already, becoz the attachment, she told me, was 2 years, (if my memory did not fail me) & its been about more than 1.5 years since she left, & i think this pregnancy really came in timely!!!!(= Anyway, Siew, do remember to beep me up once you're back in town alright..??(= Looking forward to seeing you soon babe!!!(= Till then, take good care of yourself!!!(= Thursday, 2 October 2008 14:07 Chatted with Jes for a long long long long time just now... (= So happy can....!!! It seems like we really are meant for each other.. I mean as in friendship ok, FRIENDSHIP, & nothing else... (= She seems to know me soooooooo well, & i really feel @ ease talking to her... There she was, always there listening, without fail...(= Thaanks Buddy, I love you to bits lah!!! BUT, BUT, BUT, BUT, BUT, I still love my hamburger more...muacks!! (= Wednesday, 1 October 2008 09:51 Its October 1st, its a public holiday!!!(= Sis is in Korea, enjoying her honeymoon now... So good!!(= Saw her & BIL off @ the airport last night, & took loads of peektures!!! HAHA!!! Will try to get them uploaded as soon as possible, provided Dad gives it to me lah... HAHA!!! ___________________________________________________ Recieved a call from my buddy yesterday... Its such a nice thing to hear from her again... (= Frankly, its been sooooooooooo long since we last had a nice chat...(= She was very concerned on whether i've gotten a job yet, & even cared about how i was coping... I find her sooooooooooo sweet, really sweet!!!(= I guess thats genuine friendship, isn't it...?? Always being there in times of need & always ready to help in every way that she can...(= Thanks for this friendship, true friendship... (= I'll just need a couple of them, (which i'm certainly, blissfully blessed with) to keep my life colourful & worth living..(= Something's wrog with blogger!!! *BBBRRRR*!!!!! |